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I called the police

On Tuesdays and Thursdays at 4pm, I should be able to talk to my boys. I will complain again to the courts today, that it isn't happening. Last night, the old ring, ring ring... answering machine, pick up hang up and then... no answer on the second call.. happened again. So, I called the Scottsdale police to do a welfare check on the boys.. make sure they were ok and give me a call back. I wanted to just make sure that they are still living in the same house. I am in the dark as to why the boys are so upset.

The police officer called me back and just said.."your children are fine, they just don't want to talk to you" "your children are fine.... they just don't want to talk to you... "

Elaine found a site that has been helpful to me.. it's called Arizonas Father's Rights and they recommended a site about Parental Alienation Here is a little excerpt "You will go through a period of grieving for your child. It will be similar to someone who has lost a child through death. It will occupy all your waking moments and dreams. This will last until you can 'let go' of your child. You can best do this by keeping yourself as fully occupied as possible"

It tells me not to push it.. I have been feeling that.. you know.. because I am calling to try to talk to the boys.. it reinforces Alex to say that he doesn't want to talk to me... I am going to complain about it, but I don't think I will call .. it's not helping. It says that the mother will try to appear that she is trying to let the kids talk or see the father, but inside the boys know that they will get in trouble for talking to me.. so the reconcile by saying that they don't want to talk and nobody made them say that.. alienation achieved.