monday

A couple more things

Two of the guys from the Arizona Father's Forum have written me emails.. In a way, it reminded me of the time that I felt very down, as if my life was really falling apart and when I visited my therapist, he told me that he was dying of cancer. Kind of put things in perspective.. These guys have it even worse than I do and they were very nice to send me a bunch of links that I still need to research. It doesn't seem as if there is much that I really can do, not through the courts anyway. To at least get what I am supposed to be getting now.

My brother in law found another website that shows public records. It has much more information about my ex wife and her family and the legal troubles that have had. My ex father in law was in a fight, fist fight I guess and he was convicted and had to attend a class weekly. My ex wife was in jail.. for how long I don't know just yet. The entire family has been sued several times and has been convicted of some sort of criminal activity involving their cars. My ex wife does not have a driver's license anymore, it has been suspended.

That's a lot to take in. I mean, is it enough to go back and get custody of my boys, when you add on the parental alienation? I know that if you haven't worked with the courts, you would think that it is enough. In my experience, the judge in my case and it seems in other cases really isn't interested in working these things out. I have been told so many times that I can't look to the courts to solve this.. that I need to work it out with the boys mother. The courts are irritated at me.. really.. I am a pest.. trying to see my boys and complain about what their mother is doing. I look like I am the problem. in their eyes.