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I conducted my workshop today and on breaks and during lunch and afterwards I took advantage of the time zone difference between Texas and Arizona. I called the judges office and found out that my ex wife pled guilty to felony drug possession and possession of drug paraphanalia and she will not go to jail, she will have to complete a TASK program in Maricopa County. It is a treatment program for the next year.. she will be tested and could go to jail if she falls fo the wagon.

I attempted to call Expedited Services to get the forms necassary to complain about the terrible phone calls that I have had and to schedule a conference to talk about these new issues.

I talked to at least... AT LEAST 10 different indifferent people.. some that were very uninformed about what was going on. Finally, somoene told me that Expedited Services does not take phone calls and that I should fax any request to them. I explained that what I needed was the form that is required to notify them of non compliance, that they were monitoring my case...I was told "they don't monitor cases.. how will they know what is going on in your case?" I tried very hard not to get upset, and explained again, that The ONLY way that I can tell them is by getting the form that is REQUIRED by them to form a complaint!!!! I was told to fax them my request for the form to notify them of non compliance... finally on my 10th call I got someone that realized just how ridiculous that sounded and she said.. "if you give me a fax number, I'll fax you the form" I told her that I would call back in 15 minutes when I arrived at the hotel and I would then have a fax number to give her. I called back in 15 minutes and then went through the entire mess again.. I was told again, that Expedited services does not take phone calls.. I KNOW!!! and now, she wouldn't fax me the form.. I explained that I JUST talked to someone that said she would fax me the form.. so she said.. "did you get the person's name that said that?" I said.. "NO, I didn't believe that I would call back in 15 minutes and have someone tell me just the opposite of what she told me" I was put on hold and the woman now said.. "give me your case number.. name.. children's names.. birthdays." etc.. she was very upset... she then said.. "I'll fax you the form, what is the fax number?" I gave her the number and said.. "What is YOUR name?" and she reluctantly told me.

So, I also made some additional calls to family court services to complain that my ex wife is a pot head and I was basically told... "well, are the children in danger?" "it sounds like she is in a program now... " just a bunch of crap... I explained what my boys sound like on the phone now.. and one person told me.. "then why do you keep calling if they don't want to talk to you"

Morons... they are ALL morons...

I wonder if it is worth calling.. not that I am giving up.. but is it better that they boys don't yell at me and reinforce all that hatred that my ex wife is pushing towards me.. or is it better to wait until I see them in October and talk to them about this.

I will just go and look at all the photos that I took of the boys to remind me that they do love me... that hopefully even through all of that evil brainwashing.. they will still remember how much that I love them.

This my favorite photo.... it was taken on the last day that the boys were with me.. we were laughing and they told me that the loved me.. Alex wanted to make a movie on the camera with the notepad that he is holding in his left hand..it says.. "Hello Dad, Love ya!" I will hold on to that... until I can hug them and tell them that I love them again.