Surprise surprise...

I forgot to mention that as soon as I got off the phone with the judge.. I called my ex wife and she answered the phone.. I told her that I will be taping and documenting every single call to the boys that she ignores and I will bring it to court on July 8th so the judge can sanction her and that I am sick and tired of her childish antics....

she hung up the phone...

I called back.. and she threanted to call the police.. so I told her to call and ask for the officer that is handling my custodial interference case, because he is familiar with the way this works.

At 7:30pm.. I called the boys and Surprise, surprise.... for the first time in 3 years... they came to the phone... I talked to Alex first and he said that he misses me and he is excited about coming over to visit and that he loves me. Andy wasn't as brave, but I could tell in the way he said things that he too was happy to hear my voice..

Threats and consequences... the only thing that really works.